The Story of Nurul,Aishah,Cha2,AkaZukii

why can't life be much easier than this? no complications, no agonies, no worries...just pleasant....everyday, but we would not call that life now would we?

Thursday, March 29, 2007

Jealousy Burns!

Salaams minna,

Jealousy burns! That's what i know, despite people telling me that there's such a thing like healthy jealousy and damaging jealousy. Pah! the word itself brings a very negative connotation..BUT what is jealousy? Do we need to deal with this ill-feelings in fostering a relationship? To me, it is just a feelings, and can be overcome. The root of having a jealous feelings is insecurities. Fear.Experts say; if it's keep on escalating, it's time to stop and re-evaluates your choices. And it also serves as an indication to bail yourself out from it...Why do people get jealous really? To me ,one get jealous because one doesn't trust their partner. Jealousy can be a serious issue in a relationship or marriage.It can be frustrating, annoying, painful and even embarrassing. If it's left unchecked, jealous feelings and jealousy can single-handedly destroy an otherwise good or even great relationship.

Now,I've heard about people saying, that it's o.k to be jealous or having a jealous partner.... "cemburu tanda sayang?" could it ever be that jealousy makes the heart fonder!? How far true this is, i am not quite sure. Probably, there's some truth to it. As for me,i do feel a little bit threatened if my partner is out having fun with some other gal, BUT, i don't get jealous easily or irrationally..at least i reckon i don't!

The reality is, when jealousy gets so big and furiously ugly, IT brings a lot of harm, and nothing can be done to salvage the relationship. A jealous person is more angry than an envious one. A jealous person won't care less what the other have to say, or what their justification is-they just attack! Blasting out and going berserk!


Nothing can ruin a relationship or marriage faster than jealously. Jealousy creates anxiety, anger, loneliness, hate, fear. No one thinks clearly when jealous.

Having a relationship with a jealous person is tough. The jealous person acts untrusting or unworthy. Jealousy makes the person unattractive, even repulsive.

No one wants a jealous mate and no one likes being jealous. So what causes jealousy?

"Jealousy is the largest factor in breaking up marriages. Jealousy comes about because of the insecurity of the jealous person and the jealousy may or may not have foundation. This person is afraid of hidden communication lines and will do anything to try to uncover them." — L. Ron Hubbard

Gosh, I'm on such dangerous ground now. Hopefully, "thee" would listen and don't act sheepishly. Now the question remains, on how to kill the green-eyed monster? BUT whatever it is, Anata, hontou ni gomen nasai!


Monday, March 26, 2007

Of Shooting, Sweating and having FUN!

Me trying out the rifle, and yes, that's no toy although it looked like one. and it's freaking heavyyy!!!

salaams minna,

for the first time in mua life, i was given the chance to participate in the annual Media Appreciation Day with Malaysian Army (TDM)...tersangatlah bestnya. Although, on the way of "making" it, was filled with obstacles and challenges, BUT, fortunately enough for me, I made it through that "treacherous" road. (^_^)

since i had no professional training, nor have i ever use a rifle before in my life...i have to undergo a free-one-day training offered to us the participants who want to try-out the weapon before the big day. although, one must think that this annual gathering is no biggie...BUT in the spirit of sportsmanship, one must deal with it seriously. PLUS, i am representing the company..thus, have to do my best if not be the greatest.

anywho, i was really excited about it. and the fact that i have to return for work even after attending both function; the training and the big day itself, I DON'T MIND! oh, and just to prove my pure excitement and determination, i WOKE up real early for both days!! mind you, we have to be there by 0715 hours! (and knowing well the punctuality of the army; i shivered in fear ;p)

The bunch of us; from left hand side:- faizal, WATASHI, En.Loks, Fuad (red cap) and Finaz. We rode the tanks, and it was devilishly fun and intoxicating! even better than riding a roller-coaster (at least compare to any Malaysian roller-coasters)

anyways, the team's original line-up was en loks, pejai, puad, azley and i...but in the end azley can't make it and was replaced by fin. thus, armed with the new line-up we were all very excited and motivated to at least make an impact :p (cita-cita tinggi) all i can say, it was a blast! although was very tired (due to the lack of sleep and lack of excercise thus ending up with cramps here and there..) I ENJOYED IT! and i am sure the bunch of us enjoyed our time there....although we lost in the shooting categories (pure loserrrrz, was crushed in the first round! ahaks) BUT WE were the winners in most of the "side-lined" categories; such as "name the army ranks", "inserting bullets in its 'home', "fixing up the camps" just to name a few...:-)...right, who am i to kid here...NOT us, most of the categories mentioned above was won by en loks! :p and i won 3rd place for "locating symbols in the map" itupun cheating, as i was helped by the soldiers there!!!! but who cares, i had fun!! :-) thanks en loks!

"we are the champions my friend...and we'll keep on fighting to the end...." **music disrupted..**RIGHTTTT! evidence of pure determination (right) at least evidence of en.lok's determination and SKILLS that is :p because he won most of that hampers...

Tuesday, March 20, 2007

Atarashii no keitai desu

salaams minna,

how many of you still remembers your first ever cell phone?? I bet all you can remembers your first phone...and although this gadget is constantly changing, i'm sure back in those days, you would thought that your phone was the best! haha. lame kan on how we can be??

anyways, i vividly remembers my "keitai" (japanese for hanphone) it was Ericsson T-10 model in yellow finishing. It was actually a gift from my eldest sister; Along..for my convenience as it was my first time parting away from me family. A gift for making it into university...Although back then, the university that i was in (UIA) was in PJ, and very close to my house, i would still call my parents/ friends with my new hand phone (knowing well that it would cost less if i just use the pay phone) BUT, noooo saja je nak guna hand phone. of course, back then, handphone tak secanggih sekarang, the functions was very basic and simple, screen was small, games wasn't overloaded, ringtones was boring...BUT i luurrrrve my keitai, because it was very small and sleek. Anyways, masa tu handphone yang kununnya hit adalah, Nokia 3210! and favorite game would be, "Snake". poyo giler.

Back in UIA when i got my first keitai, i was 18 years old. and ever since then, i have never, NEVER bought keitai on my own, until NOW! it was always gifts from my sisters/brothers (most of the time the phones were all used up ones) and sometimes, it was brand new gifts from them...so, first it was T10, then, i used Motorolla yg canggih la back then (flip2 tu, courtesy of my sis again), and then, another Ericsson model, and then some weird Sagem model, Nokia 3210, Nokia 3310, Nokia 3315, Nokia 8850, Alcatel pun den cubo....al-maklum la free, so i don't ask much questions (rightttt!) and the latest i used was Samsung & Phillips. (both gifts from redz1luv)

BUT unfortunately, my much loved Samsung dah kiok because it fell thousand of times + i used it in mua bathroom..it got wet! so, dah macam pening skit hand phone tu...so i have no choice, BUT to buy a new ones...and there's so many options out there, thus, i was confused. anyhow, i knew i wanted a Sony Ericsson and not Nokia (i had never fancy Nokia, due to its unattractive design) but i was diggin' Sony Ericsson ever since i had one Sony Ericsson from Japan (courtesy of Sufi) so sleek, so cute, user friendly..thus being a japanese bonkers, i decided for a Sony! (obvious giler)

ANYWAYS, membawa kepada penyudah cerita ini dan seperti title di atas- "watashi no atarashii no keitai desu" = "my new handphone"; here it is, a whopping RM1300 after much bargain and surveys) watashi no keitai wa Sony Ericsson W850i.sugei no keitai !!!!!! BUT, mine is in Ivory Gold finishing! Ya think it's worth it tak?? huhu..cam nyesal pun ado. opppps! (^_^) kopak duit aku (sbb kena bayar sendiri for the first time in my life!!!!!!)

Monday, March 19, 2007

I'm not a player, i just crush a lot!

Seriously, atashii "pureya janakute", demo tokidoki wa atashii yasashii kujiku aru desu..LOL! (nevermind my broken nihongo, atashii wa sensei dewa arimasen) and now tabitabi sono kimochi ga arimasu desu...nani shitai desu ka....sewaninaru,huhu. sedey. am so devilish.

demo, kono kimochi ga dame dayo. abunai desu kara...i hate it! persis roda di atas, what goes around comes around, sorede, having a "mounen" like this,warui desu!

Sunday, March 18, 2007

Scandalous Affair

salaams

it seems that Malaysians have opted out a new location for that quick-satisfying jam-packed lust-smooching session with their partners! and definitely, those involved aren't married couples.

not too sound pious or anything here anyways. BUT a quick reminder. one word: BEWARE! kepada mereka yang suka beromen di tempat awam, someone could be watching you, taping you and releasing it for the whole world to see! (apart from Almighty Allah of course) so watch out!


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So, my word of advice. CONTROL your lust. for the guys, restrain your cock...though it's the hardest thing to do. sure you homo sapiens have the steamy rush when with the opposite sex, BUT, by all means do control it from making out in the public. i mean, if you're too eager for it, go get a room!

for more short, cheesy, embarrassing clips, go to http://youtube.com

Saturday, March 17, 2007

#DRAMA OF A JOURNALIST'S LIFE

salaams,

today memang best. in terms of my work that is. haha. for the first time i felt the adrenaline rush while at location for work. just like in my previous postings about work, i've had had some few mishaps here and there, but today was something different. was assigned to cover "EDU FAIR" at KLCC.; which was officially launched by minister of higher education, datuk mustapa mohamed.

OK. one thing about being a journalist that i learned (at least for news gathering) is the agony of waiting. everywhere, anywhere, whatever function that we attend to, there will be so much time consumed for waiting...waiting for the launching to take place, signing ceremony here and there and most importantly if there's vvip presence( ministers of course), we have to wait for that precious 15 minutes of press conference time!

this is not the case when i was an intern for Bersamamu program. life was in a way more relaxed than what i have in the newsroom. but having said that, i'm not suggesting that a programming journalists is more relax than news journalist, both have its own pros and cons, both have its own pressure to cook.

anyhoo, getting back to that waiting-hating part, i and the rest of the media who was there HAD TO WAIT for, close to a biting 2 hours! one friend of mine, was constantly on her cursing mode because she was to be back for the afternoon bulletin. anyways, at least the minister turned up and apologized for turning up late (and he did have a very good reason) so at least that helped us cooled off. anyhoo, since he was late and need to rush for other meetings/functions; he didn't want to be bothered with any pc. and knowing this, shattered us ..with no sound, it kinda make the story 'cacat' a bit. so i and the rest of the bunch decided to "run" and "catch" the minister for a quick interview or as we called it "jolok" haha. and here's the fun part; all of us ran to get him just when we had given up the hope to have that "jolok" interview time.

memang best. suka sangat. even more great, because i got there just in time. (although i must say, was all puffing in front of the minister as my weight,heels and the lack of exercise hold me back from running that fast) so there memang best. it was crazy. but a good one tho'.tapi yang sedihnya balik, i wrote two stories tapi satu kena dropped sbb dah overrun. so sedey sbb siap ada slide cantik2 era buat huhu.Above pictures: with crazy duo: muza(upper pic) andAna.

#OF BROKEN NAILS NOT HEART

yeap. that's exactly how ugly me toe look like. dahla tu yang middle part laks tu, cam #$*(. semuanya penangan kasut tumit tinggi bertutup. huhu. pointy-pointy shoes seriously not for me as i have CHUBBY FEET! kawaii desho? chubby feet? kawaiikunai, perasaan laks. anyway, ia sakit dan mengigit-gigit urat halus jari kaki ku..huhu. and i'm afraid to wear shoes now, have to resort to selipar jepun nampaknya. zannen ne...........

Friday, March 16, 2007

Men From MARS, Women From VENUS

salaams

sure you've heard about this if not read the book by Dr John Gray. i personally haven't read this book for real, just snippets of it from the net. ( i don't really buy inspirational/motivational=all that serious crap literature, BUT i would splurge me money on Sidney Sheldons, Ahadiat Akashah, or my all time favorite author; Judith McNaught, yes, romance is more of my forte!)

anyways; i'm not here to debate the battle of sexes issues. moi a lover not a hater :-) call me conservative, but i strongly believe in commitments and relationship, and inevitably binding it to matrimony; contract for live. BUT, the many differences that set each of the gender apart from one another too complex to even comprehend (of which most of the time we fail to understand, that's why there's people left heartbroken, divorced a stayed bachelor for lifetime or even sordid becomes homosexual)

and it's always a wonder to me, why there's so many attractions between the opposite sex. and speshly to men, just give 'em some lil' something-something, show 'em some skin, and they would melts off instantly. funny...and remain a mystery to us all. uuuh where exactly i'm going with this?? haha.

well enuff said, if we aren't too careful, we can easily break the hearts of those we loved in the end of the day. i, for one am scared for that to happen. God Forbids, especially now that i have learned some much from past experiences and breakups-to not repeat the same mistakes again. but having said that though, past experiences can be disturbing and hinders you from making the right choices, and it confounds you...and you'll end up hesitating on the choices you make (or would make) making you feel insecure and afraid. to be scare of failing is still tolerable, BUT if you reached to state of giving up hopes, then , that's a first sign of the possibilities for you to die a old spinster!

ANYWHO, i want to be 'dokushin' again really, so that anata-sugei no otoko no hito wa could be called as 'atashii no sugei no koibito ga' :p owh man, i'm the devil!

anyways, for you "martians" perhaps this little something could be useful.


What Men Need to Know: 20 Things Women Find Irresistible

Listen up, guys! Women love it when you:

  1. Own a pair of really nice shoes and actually wear them
  2. Brush the hair out of our eyes
  3. Are able to hold a baby or push a stroller without squirming
  4. Plan an evening out from soup to nuts, from finding a movie to making the dinner reservations
  5. Kiss creatively
  6. Handle our emotions with grace and compassion
  7. Have impassioned, informed opinions about women writers and women's issues
  8. Can distinguish between being courteous and being wimpy
  9. Know how to inscribe a card with a heartfelt, personal message
  10. Demonstrate respect for others by standing up when your mother comes to the table, giving up a seat on the bus for a pregnant woman, asking your dad for his opinion and really listening, etc.
  11. Show genuine, platonic interest in your female friends' lives(soooo very true!, we're easily jealous creatures)
  12. Are playful around dogs, cats and kids
  13. Make the bed in the morning and fold the laundry -- competently
  14. Offer juice, soup and TLC when we're sick
  15. Do the come-from-behind cuddle-hug, just to say hello
  16. Remember insignificant details, like our favorite color or flower, and make use of that knowledge
  17. Are unfailingly polite to all members of the service industries
  18. Offer us caresses and compliments for no particular reason
  19. Understand that we don't always like it slow and gentle in bed
  20. Understand that sometimes we do
Find more sure-fire tips for being irresistible with these Love Lessons>>http://love.ivillage.com

Thursday, March 15, 2007

#ASHITA YASUMI DESU YO! YATTTTTTTTA (^_^)

salaams.

haha. finally the day i'm longing for is here (again) for this week-la...which is my yasumi no nichi desu!! my off-day! translation: ZZZZ DAY! :-) yokatta ne. only now i can see and believe of what my friends keep telling me about working life: there's no real glory about it,it's tiring, it's sux in everyway imaginable. the only thing that keeps you going is... $$. unless of course you're stucked doing something that you love. demo, korede hanashimasen yo.."abunai" desu kara. kakute, ssssssssssh. :p yosh, ashita wa datto ga arimasu. yeayyy. atashii no koibito wa redz1luv. suki desu.
Above picture: on the eve of my 'yasumi' day. Take a pop quiz: who's having scandalous affair with one and another? *teetttt* time's out.the truth is out there :p hoho.

# OF "TULAH" AND WHAT NOT :P


say what?? hoho. **shrieekkked** "tulah", malay for curse ( think so ;p) i guess that word fits me purrrrfectly this past of late all thanks to my overly grotesque, humongous zit!! yeap, and for that people, i am 'cursed'! it could't picked any more 'strategic' place on me face...but me nose!! hoho.call me self-conceited...but i do care when an enormous zit pops out right in the middle of me nose, ruining everything. sordid.

i mean, sure every once in awhile we'll have a major acne breakout, BUT, how many of you have those breakouts stayed like foreverrrr?? it has been more than 2 weeks and i'm getting anxious really and giving up hopes for it to ever be gone from me face. (i guess it found a new-breeding home) there goes me lovely-constructed-button nose....vain? i know and i don't give @^$@ haha. i am self-conceited!!!!!Above picture: "Grrrrrr" Hate it! haha.could it ever be a hit and in thing to have huge zit on your nose?? i'm guessing never. LOL! padan muka suka tak cuci muka malam2 haha.

Wednesday, March 14, 2007

salaams minna,

what is there with blogging? sometimes i asked myself that very question. before calling myself an active blogger, i used to mocked at those who are active bloggers; thinking that they have no better life.thinking that they're just pathetic homo sapiens and nothing more. yeap,judgemental i know.. but that's just how negative i was until.....I MYSELF become one of those so-called pathetic active bloggers! :-)

so, why do people blog? well i'm not quite sure with everyone else, but as for me i am doing this as me passion, simply because i lurve to write..and by writing i mean, writing just about everything. and i was, still and very much a sentimental whore thus i need to channel me tortured feelings out onto words, that is why i'm one of those diary people, and now i keep me blogs as me online journal.

i have started blogging eversince 2003 actually...ok. not as long as some people i know, but certainly i am not one of those new bloggers. although, my first blog was really a stupido one...i'm a HTML DUMBO! and back in those days, my father didn't want to lavish me with the convenience of streamyx. anywhoo, contrary with what most people would think (at least to the haters) I AM NOT DOING this just to be "in" and "trendy"! i have been a blogger for awhile, for almost 4 years now!

BUT,having said that, what i really wanted to write today is the fact so much so for being bloggin for years, i am still a HTML DUMBO! haha. why? because for the last 4 days, i can't blog because of all the composing template found here in blogger is gone from me site! for some weird reasons that i wasn't aware off until........MAGICALLY monsieur pejal "opened up" me stupido eyes that my PC prolly wasn't able to read JAVA script! hahahaha. talk about IT things eyh? so to monsieur pejal, merci beaocup!!!!!! i was like wtf?? haaha JAVA script, no wonderrrr, like the japaneses says..naruhodo ne. baka. muahaha. so, now equiped with newly installed JAVA plus FIREFOX for that extra protection, i can happily blog again! so yipppieeeeee. my life's back to normal. (^_^)

Thursday, March 08, 2007

#OF GRADUATION AND WHAT NOT

salaams minna.

graduation day is closing in. the date was out and confirmed. mine will be the 6th session on 27 of MAY 2007 from 1400 hours onwards. and on the 20th, there will be rehearsal session (of which most of me frens won't bother to go)

anywho, must get the preparation done.

me convo checklists:-
  • pay up convo fee RM170
  • submit grads info
  • collect convo robe and submit bill
  • TEMPAH KAIN! seharusnya :p
  • remind everyone those closest to me of the dates and INSIST them to take leave :p
  • shoopppping! sah sah la..:p
  • check with puan laila with the outcomes of me scroll
  • asked for leave from bos huhu
and the rest they say, let it be history. definitely will take lots of pictures.

Thursday, March 01, 2007

How to know when a guy likes you

Here are some things to look for to know when a guy likes you:

1. Keep an eye on how many times you catch her/him staring at you.

2. Take notice of whether s/he smiles at you a lot.

3. Look for whether s/he focuses on you in a crowd.

4. Observe if s/he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends.

5. Pay attention to any significan't changes in her/his behavior toward you recently.

6. Start showing her/him a bit more interest and see how they respond.

7. Have a friend talk to her/him or one of her/his friends about you.

8. Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?' Tips: Hopefully you will not have to use steps 7 or 8, but if you're having difficulty reading her/him, these steps are your last resort! Remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique.

Here are more explanations from FAQ Farmers:

  • The easiest way to tell (for anyone) is to just take an innocent step into their personal space. If they aren't interested then they will step away. If they are interested then they will set closer boundries for you and will therefore not mind your closer-than-normal presense.

  • One of the signs that a boy likes you is when he always teases you or makes fun/jokes.

  • He seems to find reasons to be with or near you. He may come up with what you think are lame or legit reasons to speak to you, call you, ask something. Try watching if he looks into your eyes or at least eye contact when he talks to you. Does he find ways to be closer to your body, near you, sit close or on the same side of the room as you? Does he talk to you instead of at you? Does he want your opinion? Cares what you have to say? Does he seem to be around you often, when he can? Does his face lighten up or seem to go from stress to unstressed when you walk in or say hello? A guy may not be obvious about it either, especially if he's shy, or maybe a little unsure of himself, which doesn't mean he's a loser at all but probably warmer from with in or more depth to him, more sensitive.

  • Boys might not tell you directly, but they may tell someone. Or perhaps when you are not around but your friend is there he will ask for you.

  • You will know if a guy likes you because he will not hesitate to make eye-contact; he will either stare if he thinks you won't notice or hold your gaze when you catch him in the act (if he has a lot of confidence). If a guy is interested, he will also go out of his way to be as near you as possible without being obvious. Of course, the rules don't apply to all men, but generally, if he likes you, you WILL know it, without a doubt.

  • I'm a guy and I think it depends, and different guys are different. Eye contact and attention isn't always the best way to tell. If a guy is shy he may get intimidated by girls he likes and actually make less eye contact

  • I'm a guy, and I find it real hard to let a girl know I like her. I try to be funny, I smile (because I can't help it), I try to be close to her, but I can't verbally let her, or anyone know. Many guys have the same problem.

  • I'm a guy. If a guy is into you, he will ask you out, or he'll most definitely go out with you when you ask him first. There are no exceptions to that rule, unless he was with someone else at the time and wants to be true to them. So unfortunately, if a guy does not go out with you when you ask him out, he does not like you.

  • Here are some of the signs: he acts distracted when he's around you and fumbles for things. From the corner of your eye you think he is looking at you but when you look up he turns away abruptly and you think you are imagining things. He tries to like all the things you do. Your instinct tells you that he feels for you but your rational part says you are sure to be wrong.

  • I think you can tell if a guy likes you if he always looks at you, he always wants to see you smile, he doen't like it when other guys talk to you, he looks at you when you are doing something, he follows you places, he doesn't know how to act when he is with you.

  • A guy is interested in a girl if he says "yes" to things she asks him to do. Time is very valuable to a guy, and if he is obliging and generous with his time, a girl certainly has his attention. Especially if he's a busy guy, he'll make time for a girl if he likes you.

  • He will make you feel special. He will be romantic. He will not move too fast. He will consider your feelings and take things slow.

  • He will show off, sometimes on small things. (For example, my crush at the moment was drinking infront of me, but then stopped when I said it was uncool.)

  • I knew a guy who would try to embarass his friends when they were around me. He wanted to look funny and seem cooler than his friends.

  • Sometimes a guy who likes you can behave in a very confusing way and be hard to understand. It might make you wonder whether they like you or hate you.

  • Shy guys like me will most likely tell their friends. Some will be confused if you flirt with them because they have never had this happen before, so they don't know what to do. Most guys don't do things unless they know exactly what they are doing. Girls just confuse us.

  • A guy likes you if he: 1. Makes fun of you. 2. Has cute little nicknames for you. 3. Remembers everything you say, in the smallest most insignificant conversations. 4. Finds any excuse to touch you or sit next to you. 5. Talks and looks at you differently than other people. 6. Talks about you with your friends.

  • A confident guy is easier to read. He'll make eye contact. Shy guys can be very hard to read but there are some sure signs: They might be looking at you but if you look back then they'll quickly look away. He will always laugh at funny things you do. Don't get discouraged if he talks more to other girls. Shy guys are very attracted to outgoing girls, so don't be afraid to be outgoing! Here's what you can do: when you're in a group of people and he's there, ask to the group if anyone would like to go on a walk, or go do something with you. Be sure that it would be a two person activity. If the guy you like agrees, then this is good. You can guarantee you'll have a good conversation with him if you ask a lot of questions. Be sure to tell him if you have soemthing in common.

  • Confident men who aren't afraid to stare at you and ask you out may just want you for the sex.

  • Sometimes a guy will pretend to flirt with other girls in your presence, to make you jealous.

  • I tend to like shy guys, so it may be hard to read them at first. But, once they open up, they give you their confidence completely. I find that they will: 1. Make eye contact with you, then look away when your eyes meet. 2. Always be willing to help you our or do you favors (like rides home, or physical work). 3. Will always look for you in a crowd, then when he finds you will act like he doesn't see you. 4. Will laugh at all your jokes/will try to make you laugh. 5. Talks to his friends about you. 6. Mentions activities that you are interested in so there is a chance for you two to do them together. 7. Will always find a reason to talk to you or touch you in any way. 8. Pokes fun at you, but in a nice way (unless he is very young and immature). 9. Seems genuinely interested in what you have to say. 10. Remembers little things that you've talked about before a long time ago, and brings them up in conversations to let you kjnow that he remembered. 11. He will always stare at you, and your friends may notice it too. 12. When you are talking with him and your friends, he will only comment on something that you say, or will look at you whenever he speaks. I hope that these help, but remember, you can't always rely on physical things. I think that most of all it is a feeling. If he likes you, your instinct tells you. Go with your gut. Don't let your logic tell you any different.

  • I highly recommend the new book: "He's just not that into you." It is so right on about how to tell if a guy likes you! :) Actually, the first rule of thumb is that a guy will ask you out if he likes you. To get him comfortable enough to do that, all you have to do is smile and seem interested in him as a person (just in case he's the shy type).

  • A guy who likes you may tend to notice new things about you, and compliment you.

  • The truth is, most girls can tell if a guy likes them. If you get the feeling that he likes you, you're probably right.